Tonight is the beginning of the Muslinholiday season of Ramadan.
Ramadan is celebrated by 1 billion Muslimsworldwide. But if you’re not one of them, you may not know what the holiday isabout. From being kind to those less fortunate, to putting a cap on lying, theholiday has a lot of great principles to offer—no matter what your religion.
First, the basics: Ramadan is the ninth monthof the Islamic calendar, which was first penned in about 600 A.D. The Islamiccalendar is lunar, not solar, and unlike a holiday like Christmas (which fallson the same date every year) Ramadan begins on a different date eachyear—whenever the first sliver of the crescent moon, in the ninth month,appears.
For kids, the most striking thing aboutRamadan is the fasting. People who celebrate the holiday eat only when it’sdark outside. From the first light of dawn, until the sun goes down, Muslimsdon’t eat or drink anything. For kids, the concept of no food can be hard toswallow! But not eating anything gives Muslims time to focus on other things.
For example, during Ramadan, celebrants spendmore time with family. They pledge not to tell any lies, not to gossip, and notto be greedy. Those too sick or too old to fast are asked to feed one needyperson each day of the month. And everyone who celebrates Ramadan is asked todo as many good deeds as they possibly can over the course of the holiday.
“The prophet Muhammad was very generous atall times, but in some portions of the scripture it says that he was generouslike the wind during the month of Ramadan,” says Mohamed El-sanousi, Directorof Community Outreach and Communications for the Islamic Society of America,the largest umbrella group of Muslims in the U.S. “This is a month of giving.Of healing and caring. It is a time for people to remember those who are lessfortunate and an opportunity to reinforce the spiritual reasons behind fightinghunger and poverty,” he says. Even if you don’t celebrate Ramadan, here are afew things you can do to teach your kids a little more about it:
- Be kind to others. Sure, Santa may not be looking to see who’s been naughty and who’s been nice for another few months. And trying to get into the “good book” for Yom Kippur isn’t for several more weeks. But every day is a good day to teach your kids the importance of helping others. This is a key principle of Ramadan.
- Make more time for the people you love. During Ramadan, people make an extra effort to visit with friends and family. Make it a point to plan get-togethers with the people in your life that are most important. Drop in on an elderly relative. Invite all the cousins over for Family Fridays all month long. Use Ramadan to jumpstart a regular routine of visiting with friends and family and teach your kids that keeping those ties strong should be a major goal all year long.
- Plan dinner in the dark. Pick a day during the month to show your kids what it would be like to celebrate Ramadan. Invite them to fast for the day, or for a portion of it. Then plan a special dinner for after sunset. “The tradition is to break the fast with dates, water, and milk,” says El-sanousi, “That is the same for all. But the dinner afterwards is very different from culture to culture within the Islamic community.
- Oh, and “Ramadan Mubarak”,or Happy Ramadan!
